Bah, humbug!

In early November, I decided that I wasn't going to send holiday cards this year. It was a combination of factors that led me to this decision, but time/lack of planning had little to do with it, as evidenced by the fact that I made the decision a month before I would have sent the cards.

Now that we've received over a dozen cards and photos, I've begun to reconsider my decision. Not because my reasons weren't good ones, but because I wonder if some of the people who don't receive a card from us will think that we forgot them or - even worse - that we left them off our list on purpose.

I'm sticking with my decision this year, but think I will probably go back to sending cards next year, albeit with some reluctance. I've sent cards to at least a handful of family and friends for probably 15 years and despite the rather wasteful nature of it, holiday cards make both the sender and receiver feel good. And after all, isn't that what the holidays are all about - giving and receiving? Other than celebrating Jesus' birth, of course.

Consider this blog post our holiday wish to you and look for our card next year!

Cookiextravagnza!

You may recall the long day Melissa and I spent making Christmas cookies last year. We were only able to squeeze in a weeknight this year, and last night was it!

Fortunately, I made the spritz and mexican wedding cakes dough the night before. Otherwise, we may have seen the sunrise before we finished!

I bought a new spritz cookie press last year after the difficulties we had with my old (yet still new-ish) one. Well, this one was not better! We couldn't even get the dough to come out without cutting it off the press. JUNK!! Or user-error, but I find that hard to believe! :)

Melissa's solution puts any spritz cookie I've ever seen to shame. Look at these beautiful wreaths and candy canes!

Melissa gets all the credit for both design and implementation. It was quite time-consuming, as you can see from her process below.

My far less creative, albeit quicker, solution was to slice the dough and sprinkle some colored sugar on the cookies. Next year I think we may devote the whole cookie day to Melissa's new designs. I will say that the dough tastes fabulous. It was a new recipe with a secret ingredient! The first taster who guesses the ingredient wins a prize - another cookie!

We also made mexican wedding cakes. There must be about eight dozen and I'm not thrilled with the taste. I'm eating one now and they're ok, but not as good as last year.

Does it look like Melissa did most of the work? I think she did! I made two types of fudge - one (with nuts) that I've tasted and is so-so and the other (fudge with peanut butter topping) that I hope is better.

Next year I hope the cookie baking will be different in two ways: on a weekend so it will be more relaxed and maybe in a newly remodeled kitchen (although that's what I said last year).

Regardless of how it all turns out, cookie baking with Melissa is wonderful time that is now becoming a tradition!

Flippin' our Wigs!

Mom and Grandma Dottie visited last weekend. Highlights included: meeting Bonnie and Mom downtown on Friday evening. They missed the Holidazzle Parade, but we were able to visit Macy's 8th floor Christmas wonderland. It really was quite amazing, but required quite a lot of standing in line!

Bonnie returned home and Mom stayed at our house. On Saturday, Bonnie and Grandma came to our house and after some tasty Puppy Dog Tails from Isles Bun & Coffee, we set out to find Grandma a new wig. (I'm pretty sure she doesn't mind if people know she's "wigging it" these days, so no secrets here).

After quite a bit of looking, we found a great one. It almost looks like Grandma's new hair was taken straight off Bonnie's and Angie's heads! They are quite the blond trio!

Have you ever wondered what I would look like with long, dark hair? Well, wonder no more!

Frankly, I don't think I've been missing anything. Or maybe it was just this color/style, but I look a bit like a My Little Pony brought to life.

On Sunday, we went to Bonnie's for her amazing waffles and other delicious accoutrements. Even Jack, whom I rarely see due to his 3-11 schedule and few days off, was able to join us!

Disconnect

I am frequently amazed at how often I hear or read something with which I completely disagree. I am not talking about Fox News or conservative blogs. These disconnects happen with my preferred media outlets.

Today, MSN's Lifestyle newsletter is enticing me to "Eat like Oprah." I don't mind Oprah and actually enjoy her show when I see it a couple of times a year. I've even read many of her book club recommendations and loved a couple of them. But there is no way I want to eat like she does!

Oprah has a well-documented weight problem and claims to have a food addiction. I realize she has a cultural influence so vast that she may have even swayed voters this election season. I also realize that the headline writers were referring to recipes from her magazine, not her actual diet. But when I read "Eat like Oprah" I think "Look like Oprah." Sorry to be rude, but who wants that?

The other disconnect I've experienced this week is regarding media descriptions of Illinois governor Rod Blagojevich. Numerous publications, from the New York Times to the Economist have described him as "handsome." My television news experience taught me that people tend to look more attractive in person than they do on television. I've scoured the web for a photo of Blagojevich that I consider even remotely handsome and this is the best one I found:


Is this a handsome man? I'm really, truly not someone who sits around criticizing how people look. Is it that Blago has so little going for him (his approval rating is 13% - that's even lower than Bush's!) that in order to create the "fallen from grace" image they have to label him as "young and handsome"? I don't think 52 is necessarily young, either, which further supports my theory that the media are simply crafting a positive persona where none exists.

I suppose this all sounds snarky and superficial. It is not that I want to be critical of these people (although Blago deserves it for his actions), I just find it so interesting that my perceptions are the polar opposite of what I am reading!

In the Spirit

We had an enjoyable and busy weekend. There had been talk of Jon and Amber coming for a visit, but when they weren't able to come, we made the most of our days!

After the gym on Saturday morning, Chris and I stopped by Home Depot to buy a tree. We were woefully under-prepared for tying the tree to the top of our car. The wind chill must have been at or below zero and we were gloveless and hatless. Not to mention somewhat clueless about tree-securing methods. Not that we haven't done it before, but last time we were in Florida and the temperature was somewhere in the 70 degree range.

We recovered from near-frostbite and made it home with the tree - a lush and fragrant Noble Fir - intact.

The decorating commenced, under Chris' direction this year. What does that mean? Chris got to decorate the tree however he wanted. I helped, but I promised not to move or rearrange any of the ornaments.

In anticipation of "Chris' tree," I picked up multi-colored lights as well as gold and red tinsel after Christmas last year. He says these are essential for creating a "fun" tree. I have to admit, I agree!

The angel, along with several of the decorations, are a little fancy for the "fun" tree, but they do add to the eclectic look. I think I'll look for one of those obnoxious cool multi-colored stars on sale this year.

Photos can't truly capture how fun Chris' tree looks. Nor can you smell the fragrance that has overtaken the house. We are feeling the Christmas Spirit!

The house is not decorated extensively, but I love having a fireplace mantle on which to hang our stockings. Jack even has one. Chris is certain Jack wishes he had a Cartman stocking, too!

After decorating, Chris cooked ribs and our friend/neighbor/my former colleague, Rebeca, came over for dinner, wine and conversation. Chris lit a fire in the fireplace, as he has done several times since it was cleaned. Some may question how I can enjoy such an environmentally unfriendly activity.

I have given it much thought and have determined that I can live with the guilt, particularly since I bought TerraCycle fire logs made from cardboard waste. The cost per fire has increased, but you can't put a price on sitting by the fireplace on a cold winter day. Who says I'm hard to please?

On Sunday, Chris and I met Melissa and Steve, a nice guy she has been dating for a few weeks. Melissa and I had planned ahead and purchased tickets to Wicked at the Orpheum as soon as they went on sale back in June. We were smart to buy four tickets, although we could have made some cash as tickets to this sold-out show are in high demand!

For those not familiar with the plot, Wicked is a musical that tells "untold story of the witches of Oz" (as in Wizard of, aka one of my favorite movies of all time) and is based on a 1995 novel of the same title.

What a tremendous show! While it followed that typical musical story arc that can begin to feel long toward the end of Act I, Act II flew by and the ending literally brought me to tears! This may not seem like an achievement, but I don't think that happened since my first Broadway musical (The Sound of Music, another all-time favorite). I also didn't know how this one would end and the conclusion took me by surprise.

After the show, we grabbed a bite at Keys, which happens to be in the Foshay adjacent to the W. Jack was working so we stopped by to say hello. I spared him an embarrassing photo-op, since I know Mom and Grandma Dottie will get him this weekend!

Thanksgiving Recap

Amber gave an insightful review of Thanksgiving weekend. It even took a second post to tell it all!

The most exciting news? I will be a lucky auntie once again in July. Congrats to Jon, Amber and soon-to-be-big-brother Trevor!

Here are a few of my best (ok, only) photos from the weekend.

Competitive and large-scale Cranium match, handily won by the Chris-Tiffany-Shawna-Jon team, yet fun for all!


I've never played Cranium with such a large group and while it could be difficult to hold everyone's attention, it was fun to involve so many of us in one activity!

Bobbi got creative with the clay. I think she was making a cinnamon bun here? And look at poor Jason's pirate look! Unfortunately, that was not a Halloween costume but was the result of a losing battle with an errant tree branch. I hope the scratch has fully healed!


Even Olivia got in on the Cranium action from her playpen-perch! She knows just what to do when a camera is pointed in her direction.


She must have learned that from her mommy...or her aunt Tiffany. Both ham it up when the camera turns their way! (Unlike Tony - scroll back up to the second photo. He knows how to hide from the paparazzi!)


Tiffany's awesome Princess Leia 'do, courtesy of Julie the hairstylist/racy conversationalist. Thanks for keeping things interesting!

I am thankful for...

...the opportunity to spend the holiday with family.

...the ease of being close enough to drive and Chris' shared enthusiasm about a pre-dawn departure.

...lower gas prices that make driving even better!

...all the delicious food we will enjoy tomorrow and the next day and the next day.

...the blessings of abundance that allows us to eat all we want (and more). It's easy to forget that not everyone has the luxuries we do.

...a job that I mostly enjoy and from which I have not been laid off!

...Jack enjoying his work (or at least the money) enough that he doesn't mind missing holidays. That doesn't mean we won't miss him, though!

...our new president and the positive direction he will take our country. Be patient. He's not even president yet, although he's had to take on that role since the current one seems to have checked out long ago.

What are you most thankful for this year?

Happy Thanksgiving!

No More Phone Books

I can't remember the last time I used a phone book or yellow pages to find any information. It's been years. Everything's online and it's easier. Yet, it seems like stacks of large phone books get set outside our door a few times a year. It really bothers me to see that much wasted paper go straight to the recycling bin.

Why so often? Why at all, really? I know some people probably find phone books helpful. Especially if you live in a smaller town it must be just as quick to check the phone book as to go online.

However, for anyone who's like me and doesn't want to receive telephone directories, there's a website where you can enter your information and presumably the books will stop.

It's called YellowPagesGoesGreen.org and I say 'presumably' because I think I filled out this same web form months ago and though I can't remember when the last phone book drop off occurred, I'm not convinced I've been removed from the list.

Check it out!

Fun

It seems like it's been months since I actively blogged. Either I don't have anything to discuss or I'm lazy. Maybe both. I'm trying to get better, so will start with a couple of fun things:

- Melissa and I saw Matt Nathanson at the Pantages last night. We had 'nose bleed' seats, but were still able to see and, obviously, hear very well. To say Melissa was obsessed with going to this concert would be an understatement. I have never seen anyone so excited about a musician - before, during and after the concert. And I saw New Kids on the Block at the SD State Fair circa 1989 so I know obsessed fans!

- Chris and I stayed at the W at the Foshay on Saturday night. Jack works there and got us a tremendous family and friends rate. Keep it in mind - I think he gets the rate at any of the Starwood hotels. Unfortunately, his discount didn't carry over to our dinner at Manny's Steakhouse. Our meal was delicious and left me with enough steak for three lunches at work, but considering that dinner for two cost three times as much as our hotel room it is definitely a restaurant for special occasions.

- We had a company come in to clean and inspect our fireplace and chimney. I really want to use that fireplace and it seemed necessary to get it checked out. Chris just emailed me to inform me that "they found a whole squirrel family...dead..tiny skulls were raining down...." I'm so appalled and can't get that image out of my head! Sorry if the same happens to you... That certainly doesn't fit under the title of 'fun,' but no doubt it is interesting. EDIT: It's also not true. Just found that out. Ha. Ha.

- Another not fun but worth mentioning item: Bonnie suffered first and second degree burns on her hand last Sunday. It apparently involved nearly-boiling water in a sterilizing sink and a heroic effort to grab a falling tray. Glad to hear you're doing well now, Bon, but oh my that sounds awful!

That's all the fun and not-so-fun news for today!

On Veterans Day

In honor of all who have served in our military.




and happy second wedding anniversary, Chris! My, how time flies.

Yes We Did!

Although it was dark when I left the house this morning, I swear the sky was filled with rainbows and lollipops lined the candy-paved streets. OK, everything looked exactly the same. But it does feel a bit like waking up in a grand technicolor Land of Oz after being knocked in the head (repeatedly for eight years).

While every American is better off today, whether they all recognize it or not, there is something larger than a Democrat winning the election. There is significance to the election of an African-American man in a country with a tragic history of racism that we all know exists to this day.

My dear friend Elaine's eldest son, who voted in his first election and youngest son who was born three months ago, will both remember 2008 as the year their president's face looked like theirs. Elaine told me that she's received calls and emails from family around the world - people who have never lived in the US and likely never will - who are inspired and overjoyed by what America has done. A quick look at newspapers around the world affirms their sentiments. It's almost as if we have repaired eight years of damage in one day, though it may not be quite that simple.

As much as I believe in this historic moment, I know we're not there. This is a step in what has been and will continue to be a long journey. A road that I hope will include more firsts. While I am thrilled with President-Elect Obama and was behind him 100 percent, I can't help but think about Hillary. About how seeing my own face reflected in our President's would make this amazing day twice as great. About how Sarah "all-style-no-substance" Palin did more to hurt women than help us.

Bygones. As a country, we made the right choice. I have no doubt about it.

Highlights:
- Although South Dakota went predictably red, Obama won where my favorite people live: Brown, Day, Marshall, Roberts, Brookings, Moody, Lake, plus a few others. You did what you could and your vote absolutely counts in Obama's Popular Vote win - the first Democrat to win a Popular Vote majority since 1964.

- Tim Johnson's blowout of Joel Dyktra in the SD Senate race. Everything I read indicated the race was tight. The first returns I saw were after the victory was called for Johnson. To say I freaked out may be an understatement. I think Chris and Jack were a little scared...

Dykstra ran possibly the most negative campaign in the state's history, yet he claimed to have "run a race we could be proud of." If he takes pride in exploiting a physical disability I truly fear the tactics he would consider shameful. The people of South Dakota are better than that and you proved it last night! This doesn't quite make up for the Daschle-debacle of four years ago, but it's a good start.

- In other excellent news from the Great State, Measure 11 went down in flames. Ten points is frankly too close on an issue like this and I fear that the extremists will never let up. But I think that voters are tired of dealing with this and maybe it will go away for awhile. A similar measure was defeated even more decisively in Colorado. Obama will likely select from one to three new US Supreme Court justices during his first term. It is nearly guaranteed that he wouldn't appoint someone with an agenda that includes overturning Roe v. Wade.

- Kay Hagan's defeat of Elizabeth Dole in North Carolina. Not only was this somewhat of a surprise victory for a Democrat in a conservative state, but it was a defeat of perhaps the most vile campaign tactics our country has ever seen. If you haven't seen the ad Dole ran in the final days of the race, watch it here. Dole accuses Hagan, a Presbyterian Sunday School teacher, of consorting with "Godless Americans" and ends the spot with an image of Hagan and a voiceover pretending to be Hagan saying "there is no God." This is so low even Joel Dykstra might consider it shameful.

- By the narrowest of margins, Indiana went for Obama, the first time a Democrat won the state since 1964. Indianapolis is one of four cities I cover as part of my job. When I was there three weeks ago I was shocked to see four or five Obama yard signs for every McCain yard sign. This was in the conservative suburbs, not the more liberal urban core. Maybe the pollsters should skip the phone calls and drive around instead. That approach would be similarly unscientific and possibly equally accurate!

- Katie Couric, CBS' accurate early calls, CNN's graphics and OMG was that a hologram of the US Capitol???

Lowlights
- It appears Al Franken lost his MN Senate bid to Norm Coleman by (at most recent count) 477 votes. Coleman has claimed victory, but an automatic recount looms. As Bonnie mentioned this morning, every vote really does matter. There are worse people than Coleman to send to Washington as representatives of the interests of Minnesotans (see: Michelle Bachmann) and this one could change, but it could be weeks before we know.

- Michelle Bachmann's Sixth District victory over El Tinklenberg. He was initially a long shot, but after Bachmann's Anti-American accusations, his chances skyrocketed. Unfortunately, there were enough voters who want Bachmann to continue speaking for them.

- California passed Proposition 8, effectively rescinding the right of all people to marry granted earlier this year by the state Supreme Court. Opponents have already filed a lawsuit challenging the vote. I'm not gay, I'm already married and I don't live in California. I do, however, strongly favor people's right to marry whomever they choose. We haven't heard the end of this issue, in California or nationwide.

- Alaskans appear to be as discerning in selecting their Senator as they were their governor. While the race remains undecided, convicted felon Ted Stevens maintains a slim lead over his Democratic challenger. I know they like to do things differently in Alaska and, frankly, who's to say that a governor has to read the newspaper or know more than one Supreme Court decision? Being a dimwit is one thing; being a criminal is quite another.

- Even Tom Brokaw couldn't convince me to watch NBC. Election night will never be the same without Tim Russert and his whiteboard. As much as I was in awe of CNN's holo-graphic-mania, Russert's no-frills election coverage was second to none.

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President-elect Obama used the phrase "We are the ones we've been waiting for" in his Super Tuesday speech last February. While not original and criticized as over-the-top cheesy, it is these words that have been going through my head for the past day.

I would have voted in this election no matter what. I've voted in every presidential election since 1980, even if I no one actually counted my vote in the first three. What amazed me and encouraged me were all the people I know who voted for the first time. Who told me they weren't interested until now.

Perhaps it takes a situation so dire and a past so unpleasant for all of us to understand that the future really is in our hands. And collectively, it is our right, our responsibility to affect the change we seek. For it is the will of the individual, multiplied 133 million times (and counting), that defines Democracy.

We are the ones we've been waiting for.

Today's the Day!

I don't know about you, but I've been waiting four years for this day. Eight, actually, but I was hopeful four years ago.

I went to the polls before they opened this morning and was already behind about 100 people! It took about an hour, which is not a bad price to pay for the opportunity to participate in democracy.

Please vote in my poll on the right side of the page. I won't ask for whom you voted, only if you did! I can't imagine anyone who reads my blog will say they don't plan to vote. I have no time for people who don't vote and, quite frankly, they seem to be the ones who complain the loudest and are the least informed.

Have a wonderful day and while you cast your ballot remember that this is the beginning of the end of the worst eight years in decades, if not our country's entire history.

Happy Halloween!

My office hosted a fun Halloween event this morning. Employees brought their kids in for a breakfast party and then the kids trick-or-treated around the office! There were about 10 kids, mostly preschool. It was so fun to see all the little costumes.

I'm not sure what to expect at home tonight. We're in the midst of a busy area, so could possibly see lots of kids. However, I don't know how Halloween works anymore. It seems like so many people are fearful of everything, although I think city dwellers tend to be less so. We've got a decorated front door and plenty of candy, so I hope we see some trick-or-treaters!


Vote No on Measure 11

My South Dakota friends (to borrow a phrase), there's an issue on your ballot next Tuesday about which I feel so strongly that I'm willing to dive head first into a murky pool that most people would rather avoid.

Measure 11 seeks to "prohibit abortions except in cases where the mother's life or health is at a substantial and irreversible risk, and in cases of reported rape and incest."

There is perhaps no issue as emotionally-charged as abortion. It seems nearly impossible to engage in logical, fact-based discourse on the matter, although I will attempt to do so here.

Those familiar with the 2006 failed referendum know that Measure 11 also seeks to make abortion illegal, but this version has added exceptions where the prior version had none. These exceptions are vague and open to interpretation, which could have repercussions for both women and their doctors.

Notably, the new law would make an exception in cases of rape or incest only if it is reported to law enforcement. The woman must also submit to DNA testing, presumably to prove the identity of the father. Could this leave the door open to prohibit an abortion in cases of incest by a non-biological relative or rape by a boyfriend/husband? These requirements will prolong the suffering for victims and could delay the procedure - possibly past the 20 week window.

Abortion to preserve the mother's health seems to be some kind of joke worthy of air quotes (see John McCain in the third debate). Measure 11 permits abortion "to prevent death or the serious risk of substantial and irreversible impairment of a major bodily organ or system." While the latter is almost completely a judgment call, even the risk of death can be debated.

Presumably - although not specified in the measure - medical professionals would determine the health risks involved. However, doctors who perform abortions in South Dakota, should Measure 11 pass, could be charged with a felony and serve jail time. In essence, they would be asked to pit their own best interests against those of their patients. The state's medical community opposes Measure 11.

Measure 11 would have marginal impact on abortion in South Dakota. The state already has what are widely considered to be the most restrictive abortion laws in the country. In 2005, South Dakota women obtained abortions at about one quarter the national rate.

Should Measure 11 pass - a recent poll indicates opinions are tied with 12% undecided - it will certainly be challenged at taxpayer expense. Measure 11 would put South Dakota in direct violation of the Due Process Clause granted by the 14th Amendment. South Dakota would be the first state to make abortion illegal, projecting Measure 11's sponsors into the spotlight to challenge Roe v. Wade on the national stage.

It's unlikely that Roe v. Wade will be overturned. No one likes abortion. No one aspires to have one. And I'd posit that no one considers it "birth control" as proponents of Measure 11 suggest.

Abortion is not the problem. Lack of access to or ignorance about birth control is the problem. Abstinence-only sex education is the problem. Incest is the problem. Rape is the problem. Tragic physical complications are the problem, albeit the only one over which we have no control. And yes, careless behavior is also the problem.

Here, perhaps, is where opinions begin to diverge and emotions begin to heighten. It can be a challenge to separate facts from feelings. The most common argument I hear from people I know who oppose abortion rights is [fill in the blank] got pregnant when they didn't want to and now can't imagine life without the child.

It's difficult, emotionally, to disagree with that. Logically, however, we know that nothing is that simple. Nor is it fair or accurate to impose our own perspective and experience onto the lives of others.

What [fill in the blank] has and Measure 11 would take away: a choice. There are a multitude of reasons why a woman might make a different choice. Anyone who has pondered this choice would likely consider it the most difficult decision of her life, regardless of the outcome.

We all know that the first abortion was not performed in 1973. Abortions have gone on since the beginning of human life on Earth. It's estimated that as many as 1.2 million illegal abortions were performed annually before Roe v. Wade. That's about the same number as were performed in 2005, despite about 100 million more people in the country. That means the rate was higher than it is today.

The difference between legal and illegal abortions is this: estimates range from hundreds to thousands of women dying every year in botched, back alley abortions. Deaths have been negligible since Roe v. Wade. A woman seeking to end a pregnancy will find a way to get it done. We can either permit access to a safe procedure or risk the complications of DIY abortions.

Is it really government's place to position itself in the middle of this complex, personal decision? If you believe it should remain the decision of a woman, her doctor and whomever she chooses to involve (with the country's most strict regulations already in place), vote NO on Measure 11.

Last Weekend

I haven't had much time to post recently, but will take a quick minute to post some great pics from Mom and Dad's visit last weekend.

We rode the Minnesota Zephyr dinner train on Saturday afternoon. It was a unique experience definitely worth doing once!


What I'm Thinking...

I know it's been too long since my last blog post when Amber emailed me to say she's going through withdrawal!

Between busy days at work, work-related travel, housework, exercise and trying to squeeze in some fun here and there, blogging has been relegated to the back burner.

Frankly, the election takes up the majority of my spare thinking these days. Do you really want to hear me rave about that again? Great! I thought you did. I have some things to say on some critical issues but I will save (most of) those for a separate post.

I will tell you what I'm thinking about today...

~ Melissa and I are going to see Matthew Sweet at First Avenue tonight. I didn't know he still toured, but can't wait to see him. It makes me feel not so old to know a musician I liked in college is still touring. This time we have general admission tickets so there will be no incidents like at the Gear Daddies.

~ Mom and Dad are coming to visit this weekend! We're going to ride the Minnesota Zephyr dinner train. Reviews are mixed and it's closing at the end of this year (presumably due to low ridership), but it is sure to be an interesting experience.

~ Our guests will get to sample the apple pie I made (and froze) with apples we picked during Suzanne's visit. I also made an apple crisp, which was good but too much for Chris, Jack and me to eat before it became apple soggy.

~ Chris and I saw David Sedaris at the State Theatre last Sunday. Chris has read most of his books, so was happy to hear him read mostly new material. Sedaris was funny and ironic and refreshing to a theatre full of liberal elites two weeks before the election and two days after Michelle Bachmann's embarassed Minnesota with quite possibly her most ridiculous comments yet. Go Tinklenberg! Bonnie and Duane will get to cast their ballots in what's looking like a possible loss for Bachmann! I almost wish I was in the 6th District so I could vote for him too. Ellison certainly doesn't need my vote in the 5th. Is anyone even running against him?

~ Melissa, Chris and I saw W. last Saturday night. Admittedly, I slept through part of it so can't give a full review. As a film, it was quite mediocre. But it did increase my empathy quotient for our current president. I still would never have voted for him, probably for the very reason I empathize with him: he seems fun, like someone you'd want to have a beer with, kind of a screw-up who could never win his dad's approval. Does he seem like someone who would make a good (or even not worst-in-history) president? Not. At. All.

With that, I'll sign off. 13 days to go!

South Dakotans: if you're not registered, it's too late. If you won't be in your home district on November 4, get an absentee ballot.

Minnesotans: register on election day if you're not yet.

As Chris learned last week, you must be a resident (i.e., have a driver's license) 20 days before the election. Too late for him, but he'll vote absentee in Florida. He'll be more help there both to Obama and in the probably futile attempt to defeat their gay marriage ban. Californians will get to vote on the same issue, although that is an attempt to take away an established right. It's also less likely to pass.

I don't understand that issue at all. Why do some people care so much about what other people do in their private lives. Maybe I'll discuss that in a future post. That and South Dakota's Measure 11, which anyone who respects an individual's right to choose and/or the right of medical professionals to make decisions in their patients' best interest will vote against without second thought.

OK, I'm really done for the day now.

Suzanne's Visit

We were fortunate to have Chris' mom visit us last weekend! Here's a rundown of the events...

Chris picked up Suzanne from the airport on Friday afternoon. They waited for me to finish work and then we took Suzanne to the Marquette Hotel downtown. (We invited her to stay with us but she preferred the comfort and convenience of a room downtown. I can't say I blame her!)

We had a drink in the hotel bar before dinner at Dakota Jazz Club and Restaurant. This is a great spot for both food and music, which is unusual because typically music venues don't serve good food. But we enjoyed beet salad, blue marlin, kobe beef tenderloin and white chocolate cheesecake brulee. All were fabulous. We didn't stay for much music, but it provides great atmosphere.

On Saturday, after lunch at Keys Cafe, we went to Minnetonka Orchards for some apple picking, donut eating and cider drinking!



We were exhausted after the orchard, so went back to our house for awhile. We took Suzanne back to the hotel, but stopped by the Newsroom for a drink and a bite first.

Jack was able to join us briefly on Saturday night before he went out. I must be getting old because I was going to bed as he was leaving for the night!

Jack joined us, as did Melissa, for Sunday brunch on the 50th floor of the IDS tower. We had a wonderful view of the city and it was a tasty brunch, although Chris is probably the only one who got value from the all-you-can-eat buffet!

After we digested our feast for a couple of hours, we took Suzanne to the Twin Cities' can't miss venue. The Mall of America, of course!


Although we didn't go on any rides, we made sure to have our photos taken with them in the background!

After the mall, we went home to relax and watch some tv, including Dexter. If you've never seen this show, you really should. It's smart and also creepy. Chris is a little disturbed that I'm so enamoured of a show about a serial killer. It's a good show!

That's the summary of our weekend! We took Suzanne back to the hotel on Sunday after Dexter and then Chris picked her up and took her to the airport on Monday morning.

Thanks so much for visiting, Suzanne! Come back soon.

What have you read today?

Given all the prime material available, I've written relatively little about Sarah Palin. In part because she's such a joke, but also because I'm waiting to write one comprehensive post about the disservice her mockery of a campaign has done to all women (and, frankly, all intelligent people). Stay tuned for that.

Last night, I saw a new clip from her interview with Katie Couric that has me absolutely at the end of my rope with this nitwit.

In case you missed it:

Katie Couric asked Palin what newspapers and magazines she read regularly before becoming McCain’s running mate “to stay informed and to understand the world.”

Here is her response, according to a transcript provided by CBS:

Palin: I’ve read most of them, again with a great appreciation for the press, for the media.

Couric: What, specifically?

Palin: Um, all of them, any of them that have been in front of me all these years.

Couric: Can you name a few?

Palin: I have a vast variety of sources where we get our news, too. Alaska isn’t a foreign country, where it’s kind of suggested, “Wow, how could you keep in touch with what the rest of Washington, D.C., may be thinking when you live up there in Alaska?” Believe me, Alaska is like a microcosm of America.

Where do I even begin? Chris suggested that perhaps she's been over-coached to the point where she's afraid to answer even a simple question for which she has not been fed a canned response.

First, regarding her final paragraph. This nonsensical approach she's taking (here and elsewhere) that she's being unfairly maligned as a know-nothing hillbilly because she comes from a rural state is thoroughly offensive to anyone who has ever lived in a small town.

Palin has proven herself to be a know-little at the very least and has made some hillbilly choices, but speak for yourself, lady. No one I've met from an array of US and foreign cities has ever thought we don't get the news in rural America. I did encounter a cable installer in Rhode Island who was surprised to hear South Dakota had cable. But he did figure we still got the news somehow.

On to the larger issue of evading one of the easiest questions she's been asked, outside the Hannity interview. But I think given what we've seen from Palin in other instances - her frequent inability to string together a complete sentence, for example - it's plausible that she couldn't think of one newspaper or magazine she's read recently.

Or maybe all she could think of was Glamour, People, US Weekly and knew better than to say so. Hey, I'm not knocking these magazines. I read them too.

But within the past week alone I've read at least one article in: New York Times, Washington Post, Star Tribune, Financial Times, Detroit News, Salon and even the Ivanhoe Times. Not to mention hours of CNN and NPR.

I've been a news junkie (or, as some might say, nerd) since my dad introduced me to 60 Minutes when I was four. A love of news content and reporting is why I majored in journalism. I can't fathom that anyone would major in journalism if they weren't interested in news.

Certainly, Sarah Palin majored in something like Russian Studies, right? What? She majored in journalism? Journalism major who can't name a newspaper or magazine? That's like a political science major who can't name the three branches of government. Good grief, please don't ask her that question.

I also know that not everyone likes (or has time) to read about what's going on in the world. Or even to absorb it in small tv soundbites. To quote Palin on an unrelated topic* "that isn’t a choice I would have made. But I am not going to judge people."

What has our country come to, when the candidate for the second-highest office can't even name a single source from which she gets her news? Recent Pew Research Center data indicate that 81% of Americans report seeing, reading or hearing news on a daily basis.

Is anyone else shocked by this? I looked up that data expecting to find the number much lower and then concluding that Palin fits the "just like me" mold. While I've yet to actually meet anyone who votes for people they'd like to be friends/have a beer with, rumor has it they're out there. And that they love Palin for just that reason. She's just like them. They can relate to her.

Well, I can't relate to her for a hundred different reasons. Not the least of which is that she can't or won't name a newspaper or magazine she reads. I want - no, demand - the people I elect to be smarter than me. Keeping up with the world around you is a requirement so elemental in a national leader that it's ridiculous to have to even ask. It's like - to use a Palin-friendly metaphor - playing hockey with no puck. Without knowledge and information she's roaming aimlessly, carrying a big stick.

As you read, watch and listen to news today (since I know you're all part of the 81%), think about what it might be like for the country to be led by someone who doesn't read newspapers. Oh wait, we already know.

Now excuse me while I catch up on the news I may have missed while writing this post.

*this quote is from Palin referring to a long-time friend who is gay. While homosexuality is not a choice, I'm pleasantly surprised by her realtive openmindedness.

Oscar's Teething Ring

Juley sent me this photo of Oscar using the teething ring I brought him in June. He had no need for it at the time, but having just turned 6 months, it looks like he's now getting some teeth!

I searched high and low for a teething ring not made of plastic and not made in China. Those of you also concerned about these potentially dangerous things know how hard it is to find anything for kids like this! (I think I bought it at Wonderment.)

Visitors

We timed our return from Duluth so that we could meet Mindy and Cloe for dinner on Monday night.

They were in Minneapolis for Cloe's appointment at Shriners Hospital. Here are a few photos from our dinner at Annie's.



Quick Trip to Duluth

Enjoy a few photos from our day in Duluth. It all started with a 24 degree temperature drop in the 2.5 hour trip from Minneapolis.

Mom and Dad in front of the aerial lift bridge.


Chris only brought short sleeves. It was probably below 50 degrees when this photo was taken. I was well-prepared, but cold nonetheless!



Mom and me at the Glensheen Mansion. Lake Superior is in the background.


I think Chris enjoyed the tour more than having his photo taken.


A full view of the mansion. The elevation facing the lake is more impressive than that facing the street.

On A Lighter Note

It's come to my attention that perhaps roving sugarbeet readers might prefer some lighter topics than those about which I've posted recently. It's a heavy world, people, and I am full of opinions. But I can chill with the best of them. So here's a rundown of the latest light topics:

- Chris' brother Tom is in Minneapolis for a brief business trip. They went out to eat last night (yes, night) and I missed it. Dinner out with Chris? Visit with Tom whom I haven't seen in two years? These are rare occurrences. Tom is observing Minnesota at it's best right now, so maybe he'll come back and bring his family!

- Yesterday I noticed a single tree on which the leaves started to turn. This morning I saw dozens. Autumn has to be nature's most beautiful process, but it means two things are just around the corner: raking leaves and frigid temps. Anyone interested in a fall yard clean up weekend? Free room and board. :)

- I do hope we get a lot of (and early) snow this winter. I can't wait to get out and cross country ski again. I bought new ski boots on end of season clearance that seem much more comfortable than my old ones. A few weeks ago Jack and I scavenged skis and poles for him from someone's trash, so he's ready too! I hope Trevor (and his parents) can come up to ski, too. I bought a pair of boots for him, too, but I have no clue if they'll fit him this year or not.

- Chris and I are going to Duluth on Sunday. Mom and Dad will be there for a convention. Can you believe I've never been to Duluth? In fact, I haven't been many places in northern Minnesota. I should probably work on that!

- Suzanne is coming to visit in October. We're looking forward to that and hope that the weather is still nice at that time!

- Those are all the original light stories I have today. I'll leave you with some thoughts from others...

Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats. ~Voltaire

Oh, my friend, it's not what they take away from you that counts. It's what you do with what you have left. ~Hubert Humphrey

The sun shines and warms and lights us and we have no curiosity to know why this is so; but we ask the reason of all evil, of pain, and hunger, and mosquitoes and silly people. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring. ~George Santayana

More Facts About Taxes

For my post today, I'll just share this piece from Salon. Straight from the mouth of McCain's economic advisor...

It seems that Douglas Holtz-Eakin, John McCain's chief economic advisor, has exposed yet another hole in the Straight Talk Express. Time's Joe Klein reports that in a forthcoming book by Fortune columnist Matt Miller, Holtz-Eakin admits that the next president will have to raise taxes. "If you do nothing on the spending side, you're going to have to raise taxes whether you're a Republican, a Democrat or a Martian," Holtz-Eakin tells Miller.

So why does McCain keep voicing his opposition to tax hikes, and hitting Barack Obama for supposedly wanting them? Holtz-Eakin had an idea about that too. When Miller asked him why Republicans continue to push tax cuts, Holtz-Eakin replied, "It's the brand ... and you don't dilute the brand."

Holtz-Eakin has also previously acknowledged, to Time's Michael Scherer, that Obama's tax plan will lower taxes over 10 years.

My favorite line - the one that lends some insight into the Republican phenomenon:

"It's the brand ... and you don't dilute the brand."

One doesn't have to spend 10 years in marketing, as I have, to understand the truth in that statement. We're savvy consumers. We know when we're being taken in or pandered to, at least when it comes to companies that want our money.

But this isn't Coke vs. Pepsi or Crest vs. Colgate. Elections are different. Make a choice, but base it on facts and reasons not propaganda and branding.

Seven Years Ago

I can't bring myself to write about today's anniversary, so I will refer you to my post from last year for photos.

It's not so much that I'm feeling blue about the anniversary (I'm almost used to it now) as I am about the past seven years we've spent under this regime and the grim prospect of four more.

Sometimes I enjoy reading comments on sites like Women Against Sarah Palin. But then I just read the opinions of people who think like I do and I wonder even more about the previously undecided voters who say that Palin has swayed them to vote Republican.

I see them on television, hear them on the radio and want to know what could possibly compel them to make such an important decision based on gut instinct. Or a pretty face. Or a love of hunting and fishing. Or blatant lies.

A day like today should remind us just how critical it is that our leaders make measured, well thought out decisions. How can we expect this if we don't act carefully and logically in choosing them?

Think wrongly if you please, but in all cases think for yourself. -Doris Lessing

The Big 5-0!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARILYN!

Enjoy a few photos (and two videos) of the early celebration.








Tyler Vance Racing

Our nephew, Tyler, is quite the accomplished racer.

Check out his website! Tyler Vance Racing

Labor Day Photos

Happy Friday! Here are some photos from last weekend.

Amber trying to get the hang of head-banging. She should take a lesson from the expert rather than making fun!


Curt and Amber cutting a rug.


The girls! LOVE Tiff's funky headband.


Don't you like having your photo taken, Amber?


With Mom and Grandma


Cloe learning Madison's dance moves.


Tiffany and the puppy.


Tough guy!


Cutie pie!


Give. Me. That. Puppy. He likes being dropped on his head, he told me so!