Sink and Faucet

A sink and a faucet. One would think these would be simple to select, but I can't believe how much time I've spent searching and agonizing over this choice! Here's what we've chosen:

Kohler Simplice faucet in vibrant stainless.

We also liked some of the more modern faucet designs like the one below, but decided that a larger handle would be more convenient. In addition, there is a wall/window right behind the sink that would prevent the handle from extending backwards.



I can't wait to use this sink! It's the Blanco Diamond Super Single Bowl. This thing is huge! Interior measurements are 30.5" x 16.5". Forget bathing a baby - I'm getting in there!

We've always had double bowl sinks and realized that we don't really need a second bowl. It would be nice to have a large bowl (>80%) for washing and a small bowl (<20%) for the garbage disposal, but I couldn't find exactly what I wanted. I like that the drain is offset in this sink so that dishes can sit to the left and the drain can remain open for using the disposal.

I love the look of stainless steel sinks but all the water spots and scratches drove me crazy. I've also had almond/bisque fiberglass that stained and chipped as well as light colored corian that was pretty resilient but did hold some stains. I think the black will resist (hide?) stains and look great with our black countertops!

Some may recall my disdain for the potential effects of granite and wonder why I'm ok with buying a sink made of 80% granite. That's a good question and one I'm still struggling with a bit. There are just so many benefits to this material in terms of durability and appearance with no comparable alternative the way Cambria quartz was to granite. (Hello Cambria, make some sinks!)

It's such a relief to have these selected. Now we can order countertops!

Carter's Baptism

Carter was baptized last Saturday, September 12th. Many family members were in attendance and all had a wonderful time.

Jon and Amber getting Carter into his gown


Carter in the beautiful baptismal gown that Mom purchased in New Orleans


Jon holding Carter over the font while Amber, Trevor, and Uncle Greg look on


The Healys with the priest after the baptism


Carter with Mom, Dad, and Grandparents


Carter with Mom, Dad, Uncles Jack and Vance, and me


Jon and Amber hosted a party at the Days Inn after the baptism. Several family members not photographed were also in attendance. Many of us played cards while the kids swam in the pool.

Trevor and Kailey enjoyed being pulled around the pool by Marilyn. She also went down the slide!


We had a wonderful time and were blessed to be part of this special day for Carter.

Fair Fun, Fair Food, Fair Hair

While at Roy Lake for Labor Day, Tiffany lamented that she wanted to go to the State Fair in Huron, but that she had no one to go with her. This was on Friday night, while we were all enjoying a few beers (and mystery shots) at the very happening Club Eden.

Amber thought attending our second state fair of the week (and this time without kids) sounded like a great idea and I am always up for anything, so a plan was hatched for the following day.

On Saturday afternoon, Amber and I set out for Brookings so she could get clothes at home. Tiffany and Tony weren't far behind.

While South Dakota's fair is smaller than Minnesota's, I like them both in their own way. South Dakota's is smaller, more personal, and more laid-back. Minnesota's is more intense, crowded, and larger.

We arrived at the fair around 7:00 and while Tony prepared for their performance scheduled for later that evening, Tiffany, Amber, and I hit the food stands. All fairs do well in this department. Among the three of us, we sampled:

cheese curds
mini donuts
indian taco
pork on a fork (enough pork to fit on a dozen forks)
deep fried twinkie
deep fried pickle
corn dog

Then it was on to stake our spot in the beer garden. I knew it would become crowded when the concert let out and Eclipse began to play, but I had no idea how crowded it would become. This 36 year old got a little cranky with all the pushing, especially the other 30-somethings who were pushing. A little politeness never hurt anyone!

As one would expect, early September evenings in South Dakota are way too cold for me! While an unflattering photo of me is not unusual, the odd look on my face (and double chin) in the photo below are due the 50-degree induced shaking I experienced. Until I started getting jostled and crushed; I forgot about being cold and started complaining about the pushing!


Tiffany and Amber were much more mellow than I was.


Sometimes when I get cranky I just go with it until it dissipates on its own. Other times, especially when I'm with other people, I try to perk myself up by focusing on something other than cold or crowds or having to pee every 30 minutes.

The South Dakota State Fair presented me with the perfect antidote to my crankiness. There seemed to be an inordinate number of people sporting fancy hairdos.

I don't usually make fun of other people's hair. Clearly, my hair is not my best feature and I have mostly given up trying to do much of anything with it.

One might be tempted to remind me that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. One would be justified in doing so, but just this once I'm going to pick on some hairdos!

I'm all for finding a hairstyle that works for you and sticking with it. Possibly even through three decades. But there is simply no way this was ever a great look for anyone.


Do you think she knows the woman in the previous photo?

Dreadlocks are not something you see every day in South Dakota. That and men in a passionate embrace, which we also saw. The Great State is really coming along!

I've seen variations of this Kate Gosselin hair lately (I don't watch the show but I am unfortunately familiar with her hair). When someone cuts her hair in this style I am convinced she must hate short hair and be doing this as some sort of protest statement. As a life-long proponent of short hair (what choice do I have?), I implore her to stop the abuse!

This guy (a friend of Tiffany and Tony) really doesn't have Fair Hair except to the extent that its messiness is indicative of a fun day at the fair.


Another thing you don't see every day or at every fair: convicts picking up the trash. (There's one riding on the back of the truck below.) These people were made to wear bright orange shirts with CONVICT printed on the back. While I am all for the state saving money and perhaps this is meant to shame them into rehabilitation, but I found it to be in poor taste.

There is nothing like ending a night at the state fair with a foot long corn dog!

This was my first trip to the South Dakota State Fair since 1992. I hope it won't be 17 years before I attend again, although I will be wearing warmer clothes next time!

Another Visit from Jon and Amber

While a couple of weeks have now passed since Jon and Amber visited us for a second time (with just over a week between visits), I have some fun photos to share.

Carter and Jack sported matching camo pants and posed for a picture in them.


Amber and I took the kids to the State Fair. It started out well in the Miracle of Birth building. Trevor wanted to get in with the animals!




As everyone does at the fair, we ate too much! Why, oh why must they make their portions so huge! I think this was three whole potatoes???!!!

We also indulged in cheese curds, pronto pup, funnel cake, chocolate covered bacon...it would've been more but a person gets too full! I suggest a State Fair sampler: a small portion of several different things. Maybe you buy a 10-item sampler and go around to choose your food. What do you think?

Trevor enjoyed the fair for most of the time, including his debut as a WCCO anchorman. Future career? We'll see, though I recommend against it based on my own experience!



We stayed at the fair for about five hours, which is a long time for a four year old! Trevor did get a little sassy by the end, as evidenced by this photo.


While we enjoyed ourselves at the fair (among other fun activities), the guys were hard at work on the house.

When Jon left last time, the kitchen was empty.

By the time Jon left, we had a real (if not fully-functional) kitchen.

We also now have a fan in our bathroom, thanks to Duane! He has been such a great help on the house. What an active, hard working guy. If he had a day off work he didn't take it easy like most people would. He came to work at our house instead!

Trevor was excited that Uncle Vance let him play with Ironman. For those of you who recall my previous Ironman posts, we now have four Ironmen. The one Trevor got to play with is not one of the expensive ones. But this one lights up and talks, which is quite entertaining for a four year old!

Trevor always wants to help when the adults are working. He's at an age where he can actually contribute! He asked to use the dustbuster and was surprised and pleased when I told him he could turn it on and actually use it! We were the pleased ones when he vacuumed up dust from all the cabinets. What a busy bee!

While most of the house is not yet complete, we do have a beautiful new travertine foyer, courtesy of Jon. Now the challenge will be to keep it looking great while the remainder of the work is completed.

Next on our agenda is to have the hardwoods sanded and refinished next week. After that, Jon will return for a brief visit to finish a few additional projects. Chris plans to paint this week once we finish color selection. We should have this project finished in about three weeks!