Happy Halloween!

My office hosted a fun Halloween event this morning. Employees brought their kids in for a breakfast party and then the kids trick-or-treated around the office! There were about 10 kids, mostly preschool. It was so fun to see all the little costumes.

I'm not sure what to expect at home tonight. We're in the midst of a busy area, so could possibly see lots of kids. However, I don't know how Halloween works anymore. It seems like so many people are fearful of everything, although I think city dwellers tend to be less so. We've got a decorated front door and plenty of candy, so I hope we see some trick-or-treaters!


Vote No on Measure 11

My South Dakota friends (to borrow a phrase), there's an issue on your ballot next Tuesday about which I feel so strongly that I'm willing to dive head first into a murky pool that most people would rather avoid.

Measure 11 seeks to "prohibit abortions except in cases where the mother's life or health is at a substantial and irreversible risk, and in cases of reported rape and incest."

There is perhaps no issue as emotionally-charged as abortion. It seems nearly impossible to engage in logical, fact-based discourse on the matter, although I will attempt to do so here.

Those familiar with the 2006 failed referendum know that Measure 11 also seeks to make abortion illegal, but this version has added exceptions where the prior version had none. These exceptions are vague and open to interpretation, which could have repercussions for both women and their doctors.

Notably, the new law would make an exception in cases of rape or incest only if it is reported to law enforcement. The woman must also submit to DNA testing, presumably to prove the identity of the father. Could this leave the door open to prohibit an abortion in cases of incest by a non-biological relative or rape by a boyfriend/husband? These requirements will prolong the suffering for victims and could delay the procedure - possibly past the 20 week window.

Abortion to preserve the mother's health seems to be some kind of joke worthy of air quotes (see John McCain in the third debate). Measure 11 permits abortion "to prevent death or the serious risk of substantial and irreversible impairment of a major bodily organ or system." While the latter is almost completely a judgment call, even the risk of death can be debated.

Presumably - although not specified in the measure - medical professionals would determine the health risks involved. However, doctors who perform abortions in South Dakota, should Measure 11 pass, could be charged with a felony and serve jail time. In essence, they would be asked to pit their own best interests against those of their patients. The state's medical community opposes Measure 11.

Measure 11 would have marginal impact on abortion in South Dakota. The state already has what are widely considered to be the most restrictive abortion laws in the country. In 2005, South Dakota women obtained abortions at about one quarter the national rate.

Should Measure 11 pass - a recent poll indicates opinions are tied with 12% undecided - it will certainly be challenged at taxpayer expense. Measure 11 would put South Dakota in direct violation of the Due Process Clause granted by the 14th Amendment. South Dakota would be the first state to make abortion illegal, projecting Measure 11's sponsors into the spotlight to challenge Roe v. Wade on the national stage.

It's unlikely that Roe v. Wade will be overturned. No one likes abortion. No one aspires to have one. And I'd posit that no one considers it "birth control" as proponents of Measure 11 suggest.

Abortion is not the problem. Lack of access to or ignorance about birth control is the problem. Abstinence-only sex education is the problem. Incest is the problem. Rape is the problem. Tragic physical complications are the problem, albeit the only one over which we have no control. And yes, careless behavior is also the problem.

Here, perhaps, is where opinions begin to diverge and emotions begin to heighten. It can be a challenge to separate facts from feelings. The most common argument I hear from people I know who oppose abortion rights is [fill in the blank] got pregnant when they didn't want to and now can't imagine life without the child.

It's difficult, emotionally, to disagree with that. Logically, however, we know that nothing is that simple. Nor is it fair or accurate to impose our own perspective and experience onto the lives of others.

What [fill in the blank] has and Measure 11 would take away: a choice. There are a multitude of reasons why a woman might make a different choice. Anyone who has pondered this choice would likely consider it the most difficult decision of her life, regardless of the outcome.

We all know that the first abortion was not performed in 1973. Abortions have gone on since the beginning of human life on Earth. It's estimated that as many as 1.2 million illegal abortions were performed annually before Roe v. Wade. That's about the same number as were performed in 2005, despite about 100 million more people in the country. That means the rate was higher than it is today.

The difference between legal and illegal abortions is this: estimates range from hundreds to thousands of women dying every year in botched, back alley abortions. Deaths have been negligible since Roe v. Wade. A woman seeking to end a pregnancy will find a way to get it done. We can either permit access to a safe procedure or risk the complications of DIY abortions.

Is it really government's place to position itself in the middle of this complex, personal decision? If you believe it should remain the decision of a woman, her doctor and whomever she chooses to involve (with the country's most strict regulations already in place), vote NO on Measure 11.

Last Weekend

I haven't had much time to post recently, but will take a quick minute to post some great pics from Mom and Dad's visit last weekend.

We rode the Minnesota Zephyr dinner train on Saturday afternoon. It was a unique experience definitely worth doing once!


What I'm Thinking...

I know it's been too long since my last blog post when Amber emailed me to say she's going through withdrawal!

Between busy days at work, work-related travel, housework, exercise and trying to squeeze in some fun here and there, blogging has been relegated to the back burner.

Frankly, the election takes up the majority of my spare thinking these days. Do you really want to hear me rave about that again? Great! I thought you did. I have some things to say on some critical issues but I will save (most of) those for a separate post.

I will tell you what I'm thinking about today...

~ Melissa and I are going to see Matthew Sweet at First Avenue tonight. I didn't know he still toured, but can't wait to see him. It makes me feel not so old to know a musician I liked in college is still touring. This time we have general admission tickets so there will be no incidents like at the Gear Daddies.

~ Mom and Dad are coming to visit this weekend! We're going to ride the Minnesota Zephyr dinner train. Reviews are mixed and it's closing at the end of this year (presumably due to low ridership), but it is sure to be an interesting experience.

~ Our guests will get to sample the apple pie I made (and froze) with apples we picked during Suzanne's visit. I also made an apple crisp, which was good but too much for Chris, Jack and me to eat before it became apple soggy.

~ Chris and I saw David Sedaris at the State Theatre last Sunday. Chris has read most of his books, so was happy to hear him read mostly new material. Sedaris was funny and ironic and refreshing to a theatre full of liberal elites two weeks before the election and two days after Michelle Bachmann's embarassed Minnesota with quite possibly her most ridiculous comments yet. Go Tinklenberg! Bonnie and Duane will get to cast their ballots in what's looking like a possible loss for Bachmann! I almost wish I was in the 6th District so I could vote for him too. Ellison certainly doesn't need my vote in the 5th. Is anyone even running against him?

~ Melissa, Chris and I saw W. last Saturday night. Admittedly, I slept through part of it so can't give a full review. As a film, it was quite mediocre. But it did increase my empathy quotient for our current president. I still would never have voted for him, probably for the very reason I empathize with him: he seems fun, like someone you'd want to have a beer with, kind of a screw-up who could never win his dad's approval. Does he seem like someone who would make a good (or even not worst-in-history) president? Not. At. All.

With that, I'll sign off. 13 days to go!

South Dakotans: if you're not registered, it's too late. If you won't be in your home district on November 4, get an absentee ballot.

Minnesotans: register on election day if you're not yet.

As Chris learned last week, you must be a resident (i.e., have a driver's license) 20 days before the election. Too late for him, but he'll vote absentee in Florida. He'll be more help there both to Obama and in the probably futile attempt to defeat their gay marriage ban. Californians will get to vote on the same issue, although that is an attempt to take away an established right. It's also less likely to pass.

I don't understand that issue at all. Why do some people care so much about what other people do in their private lives. Maybe I'll discuss that in a future post. That and South Dakota's Measure 11, which anyone who respects an individual's right to choose and/or the right of medical professionals to make decisions in their patients' best interest will vote against without second thought.

OK, I'm really done for the day now.

Suzanne's Visit

We were fortunate to have Chris' mom visit us last weekend! Here's a rundown of the events...

Chris picked up Suzanne from the airport on Friday afternoon. They waited for me to finish work and then we took Suzanne to the Marquette Hotel downtown. (We invited her to stay with us but she preferred the comfort and convenience of a room downtown. I can't say I blame her!)

We had a drink in the hotel bar before dinner at Dakota Jazz Club and Restaurant. This is a great spot for both food and music, which is unusual because typically music venues don't serve good food. But we enjoyed beet salad, blue marlin, kobe beef tenderloin and white chocolate cheesecake brulee. All were fabulous. We didn't stay for much music, but it provides great atmosphere.

On Saturday, after lunch at Keys Cafe, we went to Minnetonka Orchards for some apple picking, donut eating and cider drinking!



We were exhausted after the orchard, so went back to our house for awhile. We took Suzanne back to the hotel, but stopped by the Newsroom for a drink and a bite first.

Jack was able to join us briefly on Saturday night before he went out. I must be getting old because I was going to bed as he was leaving for the night!

Jack joined us, as did Melissa, for Sunday brunch on the 50th floor of the IDS tower. We had a wonderful view of the city and it was a tasty brunch, although Chris is probably the only one who got value from the all-you-can-eat buffet!

After we digested our feast for a couple of hours, we took Suzanne to the Twin Cities' can't miss venue. The Mall of America, of course!


Although we didn't go on any rides, we made sure to have our photos taken with them in the background!

After the mall, we went home to relax and watch some tv, including Dexter. If you've never seen this show, you really should. It's smart and also creepy. Chris is a little disturbed that I'm so enamoured of a show about a serial killer. It's a good show!

That's the summary of our weekend! We took Suzanne back to the hotel on Sunday after Dexter and then Chris picked her up and took her to the airport on Monday morning.

Thanks so much for visiting, Suzanne! Come back soon.

What have you read today?

Given all the prime material available, I've written relatively little about Sarah Palin. In part because she's such a joke, but also because I'm waiting to write one comprehensive post about the disservice her mockery of a campaign has done to all women (and, frankly, all intelligent people). Stay tuned for that.

Last night, I saw a new clip from her interview with Katie Couric that has me absolutely at the end of my rope with this nitwit.

In case you missed it:

Katie Couric asked Palin what newspapers and magazines she read regularly before becoming McCain’s running mate “to stay informed and to understand the world.”

Here is her response, according to a transcript provided by CBS:

Palin: I’ve read most of them, again with a great appreciation for the press, for the media.

Couric: What, specifically?

Palin: Um, all of them, any of them that have been in front of me all these years.

Couric: Can you name a few?

Palin: I have a vast variety of sources where we get our news, too. Alaska isn’t a foreign country, where it’s kind of suggested, “Wow, how could you keep in touch with what the rest of Washington, D.C., may be thinking when you live up there in Alaska?” Believe me, Alaska is like a microcosm of America.

Where do I even begin? Chris suggested that perhaps she's been over-coached to the point where she's afraid to answer even a simple question for which she has not been fed a canned response.

First, regarding her final paragraph. This nonsensical approach she's taking (here and elsewhere) that she's being unfairly maligned as a know-nothing hillbilly because she comes from a rural state is thoroughly offensive to anyone who has ever lived in a small town.

Palin has proven herself to be a know-little at the very least and has made some hillbilly choices, but speak for yourself, lady. No one I've met from an array of US and foreign cities has ever thought we don't get the news in rural America. I did encounter a cable installer in Rhode Island who was surprised to hear South Dakota had cable. But he did figure we still got the news somehow.

On to the larger issue of evading one of the easiest questions she's been asked, outside the Hannity interview. But I think given what we've seen from Palin in other instances - her frequent inability to string together a complete sentence, for example - it's plausible that she couldn't think of one newspaper or magazine she's read recently.

Or maybe all she could think of was Glamour, People, US Weekly and knew better than to say so. Hey, I'm not knocking these magazines. I read them too.

But within the past week alone I've read at least one article in: New York Times, Washington Post, Star Tribune, Financial Times, Detroit News, Salon and even the Ivanhoe Times. Not to mention hours of CNN and NPR.

I've been a news junkie (or, as some might say, nerd) since my dad introduced me to 60 Minutes when I was four. A love of news content and reporting is why I majored in journalism. I can't fathom that anyone would major in journalism if they weren't interested in news.

Certainly, Sarah Palin majored in something like Russian Studies, right? What? She majored in journalism? Journalism major who can't name a newspaper or magazine? That's like a political science major who can't name the three branches of government. Good grief, please don't ask her that question.

I also know that not everyone likes (or has time) to read about what's going on in the world. Or even to absorb it in small tv soundbites. To quote Palin on an unrelated topic* "that isn’t a choice I would have made. But I am not going to judge people."

What has our country come to, when the candidate for the second-highest office can't even name a single source from which she gets her news? Recent Pew Research Center data indicate that 81% of Americans report seeing, reading or hearing news on a daily basis.

Is anyone else shocked by this? I looked up that data expecting to find the number much lower and then concluding that Palin fits the "just like me" mold. While I've yet to actually meet anyone who votes for people they'd like to be friends/have a beer with, rumor has it they're out there. And that they love Palin for just that reason. She's just like them. They can relate to her.

Well, I can't relate to her for a hundred different reasons. Not the least of which is that she can't or won't name a newspaper or magazine she reads. I want - no, demand - the people I elect to be smarter than me. Keeping up with the world around you is a requirement so elemental in a national leader that it's ridiculous to have to even ask. It's like - to use a Palin-friendly metaphor - playing hockey with no puck. Without knowledge and information she's roaming aimlessly, carrying a big stick.

As you read, watch and listen to news today (since I know you're all part of the 81%), think about what it might be like for the country to be led by someone who doesn't read newspapers. Oh wait, we already know.

Now excuse me while I catch up on the news I may have missed while writing this post.

*this quote is from Palin referring to a long-time friend who is gay. While homosexuality is not a choice, I'm pleasantly surprised by her realtive openmindedness.